Saturday, August 19, 2006

This morning I wasn't feeling 100% so I stayed in the hotel with Ellen while the rest of the gang visited a museum in town. Ellen was not her usual self and cried and fussed all morning. She did not have a fever and ate a big breakfast so I couldn't figure out what was wrong. Normally she snuggles up to me, but not today. I started thinking that things are finally settling in for her and maybe she is just now showing signs of frustration (which would be totally normal). I just felt badly for her and was finally able to get her to take a short nap. Unfortunately, it all continued right when she woke up.

Then something interesting happened. As soon as Jason and the kids came back Ellen was as happy as can be. She was smiling, giggling, snuggling and just back to herself. It turns our she just missed her siblings. I had to laugh at myself because all morning she kept looking around the room and I couldn't figure out what she was looking for. I guess she just likes all the action with the kids around, and although peace and quiet is nice for mom, she likes the chaos better! The rest of the day she was great!

We stayed around the hotel today aside from Jason getting his own chinese massage. The kids went bowling again with Gramma and Babop and I took a nap with Ellen. We are trying to be adventurous eaters while we are here and today Connor ate some spicy snake (he even had seconds)! Tara loves snails, Babop tried the duck tongue, Gramma had frog legs, but Spencer is sticking to cheese pizza!

I am happy to report we are not having any more bickering over who gets to push Ellen's stroller or sit by Ellen, etc. The solution: Jason made a chart. Yes, for each meal the little paper in his pocket reminds everyone whose turn it is to push her there, sit next to her, and push her back...the things we do to keep the peace!

One thing is for sure, Ellen is loved! We are so blessed to have her in our family! Thank you for those who've shared comments with us. It's so nice to know you are sharing this wonderful experience with us-much love to all!