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Monday, September 10, 2007

Today was the big day. Seven of us (including Cici) piled into an older model Toyota van for the journey down to Yangxi. The trip down took a little over three hours as we encountered one accident and some highway repairs. We arrived in Yangxi around 11:45 a.m. and Cici needed to call the SWI for directions while we waited at a large intersection. Next thing we know, a young girl from the local middle school jumps in our van to show us the way.

We recognized the SWI from photos we had seen on the Yangxi Yahoo Group site. We thought it was on a main road but now understand why DHL had so much trouble delivering our care package (that Lilia never received). We were greeted by fresh fruit and bottled water and spent 10-15 minutes asking questions. Lilia went readily to the SWI official, enjoying her familiar voice and touch. We were then taken upstairs to the nursery, but were not allowed to take photos inside. Again, we had seen photos of the wood-bottomed cribs, but seeing so many babies actually there with bad head boils was very emotional. Lance held Lilia the entire time. I watched her surveying the room with a strange expression on her face. When we went to the lanai where the babies are allowed to play in the mornings, the official put Lilia on her favorite toy. Again, Lilia seemed contemplative. The visit for Lilia went textbook, as once we got downstairs, Lilia would no longer go to the SWI official. This was our goal – providing Lilia, as young as she is, a chance to say her final farewell to the SWI.

We then piled into the van to locate our daughters’ finding spots. Lilia’s spot was last, and I got a bit emotional there, thinking about Lilia’s birth mom. We said a short prayer for her there.

By this point in the day, Luke started asking for milk, which we had not brought with us. We stopped at a local market to get Luke a box of milk, took the orphanage official back to the SWI, had another bathroom break and left about 1:40 p.m. for the journey back to the big city of Guangzhou. This was a long, emotional day, but the trip was well worth it for all of us. Luke and Lilia were great little travelers. I think even Luke sensed how important this journey was for his family.

 


The main road into Yangxi was a muddy, two lane (being generous here) dirt road. You would never imagine this road took you into a city of 500,000 people in an area slightly larger than Hong Kong.


This is the girl who jumped in our van at a very busy intersection to show us the way to the SWI. She was rewarded with two bananas. She waited around until she got them.


Representatives of the three HIC families adopting from Yangxi with the orphanage official in front of the SWI main entrance. I am having a hard time smiling as Dolores is way down the road photographing a water buffalo roaming loose.



They told us this was Lilia’s favorite toy at the SWI. See the nice, hard, tile lanai?


This is where Lilia was found on the day she was born, December 26, 2006. We said a prayer here for her birth mom.


We stopped here to buy milk for Luke.
Desperate times call for desperate measures.

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