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Thursday-Friday,
September 6-7, 2007


We are combining two days of updates into one as I keep falling asleep every night putting Luke to bed. I knew two kids would be harder than one, but it is especially more difficult doing it out of a small hotel room, freaking about not getting water into Luke’s mouth when shampooing his hair.

Thursday morning we walked over to take visa photos and get the cursory medical checks done on our kids to allow them to enter the USA. The medical check involves three stations, and the final doctor to look at Lilia gave us a thumbs up. Good thing she missed the heat rash all over Lilia’s tummy. The afternoon was spent doing paperwork for the U.S. side of the adoption process.

At 4pm Lance, Lilia and I met Cici for the exciting taxi ride over to CanAm for Lilias’s follow up medical check. The staff drew blood from Lilia to do a comparison CBC. Dr. Friendly came in to give us the results and was actually friendly! He said Lilia’s tonsillitis is better, but he can still hear congestion and a wheeze in her chest. Her iron level has gone up slightly, but he strongly suggested we have full blood work done when we get home to rule out any kind of inherited anemia. He then told us about a recent patient, an 11 year-old boy adopted by a family from Australia that needed to be airlifted to Hong Kong for treatment. Dr. Friendly can be very dramatic (recall the coma story from Monday?) He also mentioned that he has not seen one adoptive Chinese child with an iron level above 100 (Lilia’s is now 93).

We then chatted with Dr. Friendly a bit. He and his wife have been in China two years. He said they went home to Jordan for a three-week vacation and both he and his wife yearned to return to China. He said the “Far East Magic” has ensnared them. He mentioned diplomats and others who decided to stay in China after their tours of duty were completed. Cici later told us that made her feel very good.

Friday we visited the Chen Clan Family Temple and the Guangxiao Buddhist temple. We had a leisurely afternoon then met our group for a great Cantonese dinner. While touring today, I asked Cici what Guangdong province was famous for (others are renowned for porcelain, embroidery, etc.). Guess what Steve J. – Guangdong is known for FOOD. Lilia even grunts like ladies in the Cantonese restaurants we are used to at home. She also scolds us in a very Cantonese way when we don’t get the food to her fast enough.

On the attachment front, Lilia is waking up smiling and seeking comfort. She makes good eye contact, and her appetite is increasing. Luke is struggling a bit at times, but for a two year old, we feel he is adjusting as well as can be expected.


This is the ENT station, one of three at the medical check required for international adoptees. See the sophisticated equipment?


Sign in the waiting room at the medical check center. You can see Luke Kaleo`okalani’s expression of disdain for the sign.


Cici held Lilia when she had her blood drawn at Can Am. Lilia used Cici’s jade bracelet as a teething ring. The girl has already got expensive taste.


Dolores entertained Luke in the Swan Room here at the hotel while we took Lilia off to her medical follow-up appointment. Dontcha love the Mattel sign above Luke’s head? We noted that the toy selection seems pretty sparse in comparison to previous photos we have seen of this room. Hmmmm.



Luke touching the pearl in the lion’s mouth at the Chen Family Temple. Cici said this brings good luck.


Our yummy Cantonese dinner. Chinese portions are just right. We are drinking local Pearl River beer out of wine glasses.



“Not flesh of my flesh, nor bone of my bone, but still miraculously my own. Never forget for a single minute: you didn’t grow under my heart but in it.”
-Fleur Conkling Heyliger

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