About Us
"A journey of a
thousand miles starts with one step." ~Chinese Proverb
Our Journey to Adoption
There’s a point in most relationships when you are dating awhile
and things are starting to get serious and the inevitable
question comes up….”so, do you want to have kids one day?” From
day one, we were in agreement that we wanted nothing more than
to be parents one day; we discussed having our own biological
child and the possibility of expanding our family through
adoption. Fast forward some years later, we were married for 2
years and the baby itch had started. We tried on our own for the
obligatory 12 months before seeking medical assistance. After
some unsuccessful treatments, we had the revelation that maybe
God had a different plan for us and that we should skip the
first part of our plan and move onto the second....adoption.
In September of 2005 we visited with several agencies and
contemplated our options…and boy were there a lot of options!
Domestic vs international adoption? Once we considered the
chance of a birth mother changing her mind after a child was
placed with us, that was immediately striken from the list of
options. Next decision – which country would we adopt from? At
that time, there were many programs from China, Russia,
Guatemala, Vietnam, Thailand, Kazakhstan, Vietnam, Ethiopia,
Bulgaria, Mongolia, Korea and Romania. After careful
consideration of the general health of the children, the length
of wait time until referral and the steadiness of the programs,
we found ourselves drawn to the China program. We attended an
informational meeting for China adoptions; where we met a couple
who just returned with their 2nd daughter. After hearing about
their experiences and meeting those precious children, we drove
home giddy because we knew that China was the fit for us. We
signed on with an agency and quickly got started on the required
education courses, police clearances, state certifications,
homes study paperwork etc… Our official Log In Date with China
was 2-16-06. At that time, the wait from the dossier being
logged in with China until referral of a child was about 8
months. We were told this could slow down a bit, but we were
never expecting to wait almost 3 years!
A Common Link
We’ve been blessed in meeting some really great families who are
also in process of adopting from China during out wait. One
couple in particular, Pat & Ellie, came into our lives on day
one of our adoption education classes and since then we have
built a true friendship. They have provided so much support over
these past 30+ months; and we are so grateful to have them in
our lives. Ellie and I have big plans for the future with Tess &
Lauren (most that involve LOTS of shopping, LOL).
Family
Lauren has a great big extended family who is so excited to meet
her. From our siblings, to aunts and cousins, she is already so
loved. Our parents have shared in every delay and disappointment
that we have experienced in this process, which we are really
grateful for. We can’t wait until the first time they get to
meet their grand-daughter! We have also been very blessed during
the wait for Lauren, with many new additions to our family. We
have four beautiful nephews and can’t wait to see Lauren with
them in the future. Christmas’s are never going to be the same
in this family! |
Denice's Mom, Grammy
Mike's parents, Poppie and Nonna
Mike's grandparents - Nan & PopPop
Our 2007 Caribbean vacation with Pat & Ellie - something we
can't wait to do again with Lauren & Tess
OUR HANDSOME NEPHEWS!
Jackson celebrating his 1st birthday in 9/08 |
Our little bubble boy, Kai, born 8/08 |
Ryan, age 5, is such a proud big brother! Justin, our newest
addition was born in 9/08 |
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