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Monday, May 18, 2009
LAST FULL DAY

Hi everyone. Well unbelievably, it’s our last full day in China . Tomorrow will be 3 weeks since we left Florida , and now 671 photos later, tomorrow we head to Hong Kong for one more night before getting our flight home on Wednesday. Today is our last post from China , and I’m actually sad about that. We’ve had such a fantastic experience here, and while on the one hand, I’m ready to get us home, it is still sad to say good-bye.

Today we went to both the Chen Family Compound and the Temple of the Banyan Trees. As we got to the compound some women asked Emma to play hacky sack with them – and she did pretty ok too.

The Chen Family Compound is described as a clan building, where members of the clan would go and pray. While many of the older, more traditional buildings in Guangzhou were destroyed during the Cultural Revolution, this courtyard network of buildings survived as a print house. Now it is maintained by a combination of the government, admission fees and donations. Inside it had beautiful carvings from all different materials, including wood, ivory, brick and other things, but by far the most spectacular things they had were these embroideries. Now, I thought I knew embroidery – but this was on a whole other level. There were sceneries and portraits, including reflections either in mirrors or in lakes, all done with embroidered silk! As sketches or paintings, they would be absolutely lovely, but as embroidered silk, they are by far, the most breathtaking pieces of art I’ve ever seen – they beat anything I’ve seen in any museum (and I’ve been to some pretty famous museums including the Louvre, Prado, Florence….you get the point). Sadly, I cannot adequately describe them here. I tried to take photos, but you’re not allowed. I snuck in one, but it’s the least impressive (sorry).

Afterwards, we went to the Temple of the Banyan Trees with the 1000 Buddha Pagoda. Unfortunately, coming from all the phenomenal sites in Beijing , its hard to be impressed by much now, but the best part of this visit was when the 4 families were given a special blessing by a monk in the Temple with the three Buddhas. Kneeling at the middle Buddha, Ethan, Emma and I alternated between bowing our heads to the floor (cow-towing) and staring up at this huge gold smiling face, while we were sprinkled with water and the monk chanted a blessing. Despite my weak description, it was very moving.

Afterwards, we had lunch, went into a few stores, and then came home for a much needed bath and naptime while mom packed. And now we head to dinner. Tomorrow everything gets finalized, and I think we actually take an oath at a ceremony at the consulate before catching our train to Hong Kong . We’ll stay overnight in Hong Kong and then our long trip home begins…..

I want to thank all of you for your beautiful and supportive posts and emails these past weeks. It’s meant so much to share this entire journey with all of you. I’ll post an update again as soon as I can – and this time, it will be from home – with Ethan in his new room in his new house.

Wish us luck on the train, in Hong Kong and then the flight (oy, the flight). Once I make it through the next 3 days, I’ll be a seasoned traveler with 2 kids, and NOTHING will seem that difficult again!

All the very best, and with lots of love, Dawn

Emma playing hacky sack with some local women


Chen Compound courtyard


Silk embroidery at Chen Compound


Dragons in park outside compound


Temple where we were blessed


Buddha smiling down on us


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