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Saturday, October 30, 2010

We had very little official business today so after breakfast we headed out into the streets to poke around in the shops again. Our first stop was "A Gift From China" (www.agiftfromchina.com). We've really come to love this shop because all of their profits go to charity. As such, it's the one place where you don't do any negotiating. Their gifts are all pretty much handmade and tend to be higher quality and completely unique. They have everything from clothing to artwork and we've spent a fair amount of money there on our visits. It's well worth the expense. This time around we just picked up a few Christmas ornaments for the tree but I'm sure we'll be back later in the week.

Gemma seems to have shaken off any ill-effects of the immunizations she'd gotten yesterday because she had plenty of energy and a good disposition. The last couple days she has taken to eating only a light breakfast rather than the usual pile o' food she'd been getting. We're not sure why, but Catherine intervened to make sure she's eating more and not asking for snacks all day long. (heck, all our kids have done that so it's nothing new anyway.)

We headed back across the Greenway to stop into Jordon's yet again. Along the way we stopped by Starbucks for our first time. In all the days we've ever been in Guangzhou we've never stopped there for some reason. For a few minutes we felt like we were completely at home back in the U.S., enjoying the familiar ambience that Starbucks is known for. Inside there was a cute young Chinese girl that really took a liking to Gavin. She was smiling and giggling at him and pinching his cheeks. At one point she even gave him a big ol' smooch on the cheek. The other day a bunch of local girls told him he looked like Harry Potter, so maybe he's just reached start status around here. Whatever the case, we were snapping pictures as best we could but the lighting wasn't quite right and we couldn't adjust in time. It's just as well because Gavin didn't want any of those pics posted. He did however agree to at least one picture, where he and the girl just stood side by side. That one we were able to get. She was adorable and reminded us so much of our beloved exchange student "daughter", Emily. She and Gavin even exchanged emails so we could send the pictures to each other. That's my boy, promoting world peace one cute girl at a time.

It took what seemed like forever to get one tall cup of Pike because they had to brew it, but finally we were on our way and met back up with Leda at Jordon's place. Gavin and Gemma got a couple more small items and we bought some cheap badminton rackets to play with in the park. Gavin and I played badminton for about 45 minutes or so, finally just realizing that we'd never be any match for the locals who play this day in and day out. We gave up and played hacky-bird but not really feeling it, we just re-joined the others at the playground. Gemma and Faith were doing their usual giggling and squealing.

Settling back in the room, there was still quite a bit of time before our official business, which was just to meet with Catherine and the rest of the Holt families to get our paperwork together for the the Visa appointment. I managed to get a nice run in while April and the kids just relaxed in the room. I ran a couple laps around the island and mapmyrun.com still said it was only about 3 miles.

Once at the paperwork meeting it took about an hour or so to get everything together. It was slightly easier for the I-800 Hague families than it was for the I-600 families. When the paperwork was done, we set to work planning some tours as a group for the remaining days we'd have here.

Immediately following the meeting, Todd Perry and I joined Catherine in the Holt Office to figure out arrangements for an orphanage visit. We called our wives down too and discussed options. Because our girls have different situations, we had to figure out separate solutions. It took quite a while to get a plan together for both families. For our part, we will be visiting the orphanage on Monday via a hired Lotus driver immediately after the TB check at the international clinic. From there, we will walk over to Gemma's school to get a firsthand look. With any luck there will be one more very special meeting that I can't go into detail about here, and following that, we will visit her finding spot near Nanfeng (pronounced "non-fong") hospital. Miraculously, all of these places are located on the north end of town so we won't have to run all over and will actually get back in time for a relaxing river cruise with the group. Catherine counseled with both of the girls to gauge their reactions to our plans. True to form, Gemma was mostly indifferent about the plans, just citing that she wanted to make sure she saw two best friends, Bei Bei and Di Di. These two are apparently soon to be adopted and have been returned to the orphanage to wait out the final weeks. We will track down their adoptive parents in order to keep them all stay in touch once back in the States. Catherine is also helping us to track down a younger foster sister of Gemma's that went to the U.S. last year after being adopted.

While in the Holt office Gemma seemed to be concerned about something and Catherine was laughing. Catherine told us that Gemma thinks we have no money because of April's pants. April has several pairs of Lucky Brand jeans with holes in them. Catherine had to explain that it's just fashion and that we're fine financially. We had a pretty good laugh at that one.

We wrapped up the meeting with Catherine just in time to catch the last shuttle back over to Shangxia Jiu Lu (pronounced "shongsha jay-o loo" and known to westerners as simply "shopping street"). We were back for a little American food again with the Perrys (Pizza Hut this time). We don't even eat this much "American" food back home, but we're just a little burnt on Cantonese food and since some of it tastes a little tainted, it's good to go with what you know.

The Pizza Hut menu was every bit as big as a Cheesecake Factory, complete with pictures for easy ordering. There are pizza and pasta choices, but also lots of local dishes. Being the simple people we are we ordered, you guessed it, pizza. We couldn't however get drinks. The fountain drinks were made from tap water and to order water only meant you just got cups of tap water instead of bottled water. I took care of that problem with a mad dash to 7-Eleven across the way. The pizza was good and tasted just like home. Gemma and Faith both had a slice but while Faith ate it voraciously, Gemma didn't even finish it. We think she may be starting to show a little grief through her meals and will be vigilant to make sure she gets enough to eat. All things considered, the Americans in the group were all feeling a little less homesick now.

The Perrys headed back to the White Swan and we decided to head West down Shangxia Jiu Lu and check out the expanse of this place. We also wanted to scope out the Banana Leaf Thai restaurant that we've heard so much about but it must be the opposite direction because we never came across it. Shangxia Jiu Lu is easily as big as New York Times Square if not bigger; it just doesn't sport some of the massive skyscrapers in the immediate vicinity like Times Square does, nor does it have the Broadway element to it. Mostly it's just a lot of shops and restaurants and seems to be very kitschy by Chinese standards.

I have never seen so many Chinese people in one place as I've seen in Shangxia Jiu Lu. The whole city is gearing up for the 2010 Asian Games and there are people everywhere. We walked probably a mile down this frenetic pedestrian road and then headed back to catch a cab.

I don't know if it's because we're a minority here or there were just enough fares to keep the cabs occupied but the cabbies just kept driving right on by us. We soon figured that it would be quicker to walk back to the hotel than wait for a cab, so we headed south down Kangwang South Road for the 15 minute walk back to the island.

If you decide to do this I have some advice. First, brace yourself for the most disgusting smells you've ever smelled in your life as you walk by a seedy, open-air market where vendors are cooking all kinds of traditional Cantonese food made from the lesser vermin of the Earth. This market is piled high with months worth of smelly and sickening garbage. It is a public health disaster. Next, stash your ID, cards, and cash in your front pocket and keep a hand on them at all times. Then, stay on the main sidewalk in the well-lit areas near the throngs of people. It would not be wise to venture off into the dark hutong neighborhoods directly behind the main drag. Finally, if you're carrying an SLR camera, it would be good to keep a hand on your lens hood to keep it from slipping off, banging into stuff, or being swiped. I really can't admit to feeling any fear on this short walk, but I did suddenly have a heightened sense of my surroundings and took a very pragmatic approach. Walk quickly and with purpose and you'll be back in no time.

By now it was after 9pm and time to start winding down the night. We'd worn Gemma out pretty good and she went down well. Gavin and April were out soon after and I should be heading that way myself now...

Gemma tries to explain something as we walk down the greenway


Shamian Island is one of the greatest places for portraits because of all the colonial architecture. I'm sure that's why the wedding and modeling shoots are all over the place here.


Banyan trees along the greenway


Ahhhhhh, Starbucks


Gavin meets a new friend in Starbucks. She was SO CUTE! Reminded us a lot of Emily.


A little like being in your living room at home...


Playing badminton on the waterfront


Another community sing-along


Pizza Hut got into the Halloween spirit.
Pretty much the only place we've seen that is.


Shangxia Jiu Lu getting prepared for the Asian Games


Typical zoo of a store on Shangxia Jiu Lu


The White Swan at night


First of the hotel decorations for the Asian Games. During the Olympics every building in sight was decorated somehow. The symbol represents the famous Five Goats statue in Guangzhou.


More late night practice with the lights


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