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June 29, 2008
RAIN, RAIN, GO AWAY COME AGAIN ANOTHER DAY!


I am not sure I mentioned this in any of my earlier posts, but I believe the day prior to us arriving in Guangzhou a typhoon hit the Hong Kong area and so Guangzhou has gotten A LOT of rain. It has not limited us other than we have not swam in the pool and maybe we haven’t taken Ellie Lu out as much.

The plan today is to have breakfast then attend church at the Christian Church and then walk around the island. This afternoon there is a group outing to the Pearl and Jade markets and maybe a trip to the store to pick up supplies. Mel is still not feeling well so he will likely stay in today.

I went down to breakfast alone and Mel stayed in the room with Ellie Lu. It was really odd having breakfast by myself…I ate pretty quickly and also gathered some things up for Mel, mostly toast and brought it back for him. I also found formula in one of the hotel shops. When I got back to the room I got Ellie Lu ready and we both headed out to church. We didn’t take an umbrella, probably because my hands were pretty full. It was very peaceful walking to church it was about 10:15 am. We arrived at the church to a crowd that was gathering…there was already a non-English service going on and it was not clear if the crowd was just listening or preparing to attend the English service. Since we were early I walked down the street by the church and found “Susan’s” shop and also saw “From China with Love” and several other shops. It was beginning to look like rain and so I walked back to the church and it was amazing how people came up to us and would squeeze Ellie Lu’s hand or smile and try to talk to me. One lady in particular really connected with us and when it began to rain she pulled us in under the shelter and she spoke English and talked to me at length. It was one of the best conversations I had with someone I didn’t even know. I wish I had somehow gotten her name…she was really sweet and knew a lot about adoption too. When it was time to enter the church she wanted us to sit with her and helped me into the church. I had to explain to her that we needed to sit in the back and also I might need to leave suddenly if Ellie Lu fussed. It turned out that it got very crowded so I actually just stood in the back…just in case. We also saw some of our travel group…The Lamb’s and our guide Catherine’s son was there. Also Catherine brought us an umbrella which we ended up needing pretty badly.

The service was very beautiful and it was in both Chinese and English. It was one of the most spiritual services I had been to. The church was standing room only and there were even people outside. The music was so nice. We made it about 75 % of the way thru before Ellie Lu was fussy. Turns out this was a huge blessing…we arrived back at the hotel and literally were just in the door and it was like the flood gates opened. When we got back to the room Mel was feeling a little better. We all rested and then at 2 pm I met the group to go shopping for pearls and jade.

We rode on a bus to the pearl and jade shops. We first went to the pearl shops. There were all kinds of booth, but only a few reputable stores that took credit cards. I finally found one and bought several pearl necklaces, bracelets, earrings in different styles and colors. I hope to give these as gifts to Ellie Lu as she gets older.

The only thing I really wanted from the jade market was a “mother/daughter” necklace and the guide helped me find one. I also looked for Mel something but it was so Smokey and it made me sick so I had to stand outside and wait for everyone. While I was waiting I watched the people and talked to some of our group members who came by. I spoke with Dr. Lamb quite awhile and learned about their adoptions, it was really nice to learn their story. I also took quite a few pictures…some in particular of these twin girls who had a friend with them. They were so cute in the rain and all together…a few minutes later they came by…the twins were not speaking the friend took the side of one twin…some things are the same in all cultures…three’s a crowd.

As we were all walking to get on the bus one of our travel mates Barb fell and I could tell right away it was serious. I heard something pop when she hit the ground. For a few minutes there was total confusion then several of us pretty much demanded the guides take us to the hospital. Turns out Dr. Lamb went with Barb and her sister and the rest of us were taken back to the hotel after they were dropped off. We later found out that Barb broke her shoulder.

Once we got back to the hotel after shopping…I made us some macaroni and cheese and we all loved it…even though it was the instant kind….even Ellie Lu liked it. While we watched the movie I began organizing our suitcases and removing things we would not need to take home…we will donate those to our agency so future families can use them. We watched a movie and put Ellie Lu down and also looked ahead to see what types of activities we would be doing on Monday.

Tomorrow there will be a group trip to the Six Banjan Temple for a “baby blessing” and then I will go with one of our guides Ruth to the consulate to have one of our documents notarized. Apparently in all the confusion of leaving and receiving Ellie Lu’s referral on June 11; I actually wrote her name in a way that is confusing so I must go in person and “swear” that the paperwork is correct.


Daddy and Me


Ellie Lu and Mommy on our way to church...bottle in hand


Pretty in my first church dress...thanks Fran


The Christian Church


Three's a Crowd


White Swan Barbie

 


I can’t believe we will leave in just over 48 hours, although we are anxious to get home it really makes me sad to leave China. The trip has been “magical” in so many ways. Seeing the culture here first hand and experiencing life here has really been special. We take so much for granted and really life is pretty darn easy in the U.S. When Ellie Lu is older I hope she will want to return for a “homeland” tour or who knows maybe we might get the chance to adopt again. Better get some sleep…another big day
 

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