Waiting for Referral
December 2006
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"Don’t live in reaction to things that you can not
control."
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Wow it has been a long time
since we have updated our website! While there is forward
progression with our adoption, the process is taking a
significantly longer time than what we expected. When we started
the process in January of ’06, families were home with their
children in under a year from when their dossier was logged in
at CCAA in China. Now each month we read that we should expect
it to take one more month than what we were told the previous
month. Right now it is taking about 18 months from LID to
referral, but that could change either way. Let’s hope things
speed up soon!
Tom has been busy. Tom was coaching a 15 National volleyball
team; they did very well this season. All of the girls improved
tremendously both in their skills and their knowledge of the
game. We will miss them and the practices! Tom has been promoted
to Team Lead at his job. He is also hoping that the weather
begins to cooperate so that he can begin working on the yard and
working on his golf swing.
Caesar has been busy as well. At the beginning of April, we had
a scary incident where Caesar was acting very strangely. As I
watched him, he became progressively worse and his stomach was
bloating in front of my eyes! I called the vet; of course it was
after hours, and begged him to come into the office because it
was a REAL emergency. After a series of tests and x-rays, it
became obvious to the doctor that Caesar’s stomach was
flipped-yes I had never heard of it either. But I guess many
large breeds of dogs are susceptible to this, as well as horses
and cows. He was quickly taken into surgery at 11 pm that night
and spent 5 days in the hospital. So after a month of babying
him he is back to normal and his spark is back in his eyes. You
can see in the picture that Caesar had all of his gear on so
that he could not lick the staples and make the incision
infected. We called him “Cone” for three weeks. At first he
would bump into things, but he got pretty good at navigating the
furniture with the cone on his head. He was a good sport about
the entire thing.
I am just looking forward to the end of school. My year has been
wonderful. My students have been an absolute joy to be around. I
have had 27 of them two years in a row by teaching Advanced 7th
grade and now Algebra I. They are mature and fun to teach. I
will miss them, but it is time for them to go to the high
school. I am looking forward to taking a few classes, swimming
and finishing up the landscaping this summer.
We had a great opportunity in February to go to the FCC
Cleveland Chinese New Year celebration. Tom and I had an
opportunity to meet so many great families in all stages of the
adoption process as well as many families with older children.
It has been great to be part of FCC as well as our local group,
MAK. We have been to two recent events with our local MAK group.
My mom, sister and the twins had the opportunity to go to the
April Family Night and meet many families. Mom had a chance to
talk to people who had been through the entire adoption process,
she got to ask all of the questions that I was not able to
answer and have them answered by experts. Morgan and Alayna had
a chance to play with all of the children! I am looking forward
to getting together with the other mothers of MAK during their
weekly playgroup to catch up.
We will be going to our Adoption Agency’s annual China Party the
Friday of Memorial weekend at their headquarters. I can’t wait
to meet some of the families that we will be traveling with,
plus we will get to meet Uncle Zhou, our guide throughout the
entire trip to China! |

Tom and Melissa at the
2007 FCC Cleveland Chinese New Year Party

Morgan, Aunt Sissa, and Alayna

Caesar a.k.a. “Cone”, one week after surgery

A huddle at Regionals

Medals at Regionals for Tom’s 15 National team

Ashley graduated from Bowling Green
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Late in June we are taking our family vacation. Tom and I are
headed to Minneapolis to the Volleyball Junior National
Championships. We will of course be watching volleyball. We are
going to see our friend’s daughter Kilee and her team compete.
They won the State Bid Competition! We will of course go to the
Mall of America (who goes to Minneapolis without visiting, plus
there is a CROCS STORE!), the University and the Sculpture
Garden.
We will then head back home via
Chicago to visit Tom’s family. We have been talking about
visiting Chicago for many years now. I can’t wait to see the
downtown and of course go to Niketown, Oprah, American Girl and
all of the other great shopping destinations there. Hopefully, I
can talk Tom into seeing a few of the Frank Lloyd Wright
buildings there as well.
Tom wants to stop at Notre Dame on our way out, we have started
this thing where if we are close to a large university while we
are driving to our vacation spot, we stop and check out the
athletic facilities or other buildings of importance on the
campus.
Of course the summer also holds several local festivals and a
trip to DC to visit Glenn.
As long as CCAA continues to move forward we will get our
daughter in time. Some days it seems as though we just finished
our dossier yesterday, even though it will be our year
anniversary for our May 15th LID and some days it seems like
this process has taken an eternity. So far I have learned so
many things during the process that I will need during
motherhood, patience, letting go of things that I can’t control
and faith. Please keep our Eliana in your prayers; she might be
born now and residing in an orphanage some where in China. Pray
that she knows that we will be a family soon.
I have read several great books during our wait: Daughters of
China, From China with Love, Freedom Writer’s Diary and
currently I am reading Wanting a Daughter needing a Son. Please
email me any suggestions for books, websites, webgroups, or
magazines that have been helpful to you in raising your children
or during your adoption process. Staying busy has sure helped
the time pass more quickly!
Happy one year LID anniversary to our travel group (May 15,
2006)!
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